How Do You Recover From Being a Pastor’s Wife?

How Do You Recover From Being a Pastor’s Wife?

I have a love-hate relationship with the Facebook “Memories” feature, which lets you revisit photos and posts you shared on the exact same date years ago.  For someone who has spent the last five years recovering from religious trauma and undoing the harm of a decade...
A Hammer in the Pulpit

A Hammer in the Pulpit

It was late November of 2024 when I found it. While decorating the United Church of Lincoln for the Advent and Christmas season, I reached down into the pulpit, a place where thousands of sermons had been preached over many years. I found a hammer at rest on a shelf—a...
When Sunday Demands More Than A Smile

When Sunday Demands More Than A Smile

I am not so daft as to be unaware of how people think of me. I understand my unconventionalness draws attention. The latest example came while sitting with a couple of long-time church members. Somewhere around the one-hour mark, a set of eyes set upon me, looked me...