How Politics Replaced Religion in the American Soul

How Politics Replaced Religion in the American Soul

We once argued about politics at the dinner table and then cleared the dishes.  Today, people cut old friends out of their lives. Families avoid each other’s calls. Marriages strain under the weight of partisan loyalty. Something crucial has shifted. Politics hasn’t...
The Epiphany Season: By Another Road

The Epiphany Season: By Another Road

Several years ago, I began an annual practice of giving my children a final gift on Epiphany. The purpose was to remind them that Christmas lasts more than one day, with the twelve days of Christmas occurring after December 25. Epiphany is also its own season, leading...
The Cost of Equivocation: Why We Avoid Clarity

The Cost of Equivocation: Why We Avoid Clarity

Most people aren’t born afraid of clarity. They learn it. From childhood onward, many of us are trained, explicitly or implicitly, to soften our words, protect other people’s feelings, avoid discomfort and keep the peace at all costs.  We’re told to be “nice,” to “not...