The Epiphany Season: By Another Road

The Epiphany Season: By Another Road

Several years ago, I began an annual practice of giving my children a final gift on Epiphany. The purpose was to remind them that Christmas lasts more than one day, with the twelve days of Christmas occurring after December 25. Epiphany is also its own season, leading...
The Cost of Equivocation: Why We Avoid Clarity

The Cost of Equivocation: Why We Avoid Clarity

Most people aren’t born afraid of clarity. They learn it. From childhood onward, many of us are trained, explicitly or implicitly, to soften our words, protect other people’s feelings, avoid discomfort and keep the peace at all costs.  We’re told to be “nice,” to “not...